We all need to meet up for a "happy" hour. I think being LBSs has made all of us a band of brothers. I feel the same way about life, the ex, kids, and friends... it's like I could be posting the exact same questions and thoughts.
It would be great to have some people to hang out with that are in a similar situation. All my friends are married or divorced. The few friends are divorced did not DB and they are still very bitter and angry at their exes. I have looked at divorce groups in my area, but haven't been. I know I should just go.
Kramer, I completely feel like you do. Like I'm just going through the motions. I feel like I am worse today than I was 2 weeks ago. I can't sleep, not eating, but I'm great at focusing on being pissed off. A mental or emotional backslide maybe? The good news, I'm not texting or calling ex at all. I'm just numb towards her. I don't respond to her questions to be dark or rude, I just give a flip about her stupid and petty questions.
She will be coming back to the house today for Easter and to stay during the week to watch the kids while I'm at work. This arrangement is the worst. I don't want her around.
Good luck guys. We can do this. We're not the first and we won't be the last.
M:42 W:43 T:14 M:10 S:9 D:5 W filed 12/22/14 EA 12/31/14 PA 4/10/15 D final 5/13/15
