Personally I don't plan to date or even try and pick up women for the foreseeable future, way post D, should that happen. I was referring to going out GAL, forming new friendships, maybe in a mixed social group, but being seen by S and it being taken the wrong way. Like I said, we have to get out and GAL, it's just that it would seem like that if a W, or one of her friends for example, saw H sat in a bar with a few unknown people (maybe some are the opposite sex) it could be taken the wrong way.
What I meant by being contradictory was this: one rule says to not ask the WAS anything, appear relatively uninterested, but another rule says to focus communication on your W. Now, I understand stopping activities and looking at them, paying full attention when they speak etc, but what I was asking was how to not appear to be pursuing whilst focusing on them in communication. Does that mean asking a general question and then stepping back and letting them roll with it? I wonder because if one asked how was your weekend/day at work/trip/conference etc, it could be seen as pursuit even if the intention was to focus on W rather than yourself.
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BD - 30TH JAN 2015 S - 30TH JAN 2015 PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014) CONTINUAL TALK OF D ME: 31 W: 28 T: 10yrs M: 4.5yrs D:5, S:6
