If you wish to be open with your family, do so because it is time, because it feels authentic for you and your family can support you.
My H said in front of my cousin that my father 93 should smother my mother 90 (with Alzheimer) because she was a miserable woman! This forced my sitch into the open, my wonderful dad forgave H, said he was an idiot. my glam sis not so forgiving.
Be open with your family because it is what you want and not as a punishment for W.
Personally I would give the bare bones and leave the question of OM in the air. Although I did make it clear to my family that I was not wayward. I simply said "there has been no one else in my life than my H".
This is too important to be destructive. Your D needs respect in this, and the reason will emerge. Truth can not be kept covered in these circumstances.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 04/05/1502:31 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
