Not dumb anymore (3)

[Pyrite]

i suppose i was super-imposing my sitch. My W became a totally different person in one day. I dont think it realistically "started" with a single decision. I think day after day she left home where she was unhappy and day after day in her office there was this young guy who just wanted to have fun, flirted with her, befriended her. Feelings developed until one day - there was a decision, but by that time turning back was not realistic. ATM she is ecstatic with this decision. No one is allowed to even question it. She has backed it up by exagerating how bad our M was. She will stick by this DECISION. MAYBE she will review things maturely IF the new R fails, but there is no real reason to expect it will. Well I can come up with plenty but thats self defeating really. Sorry - my negativity. It sounds like in your case you at least have a more receptive WAS.