Tonight we had an appointment with a loan counselor to talk about refinancing our VA Loan. Before the guy gets here H says I don't want to sign anything tonight. I want to think on it. I agreed as I don't ever like to sign things on the spot, H seems to fall for these schemes. So I was surprised when he said this.

The H says "well what if I'm not going to stay, are you keeping the house?" I said, then why are we doing this? H said I just want to get the info. I guess I shouldn't be too surprised, this is one of his standard MCL lines. The other one was "I can see nothing's changed here" which never made any sense.

We then went to have a burger and now H is taking a shower with S.

I know, I know I shouldn't read anything into what he says. My mind of course is ASSuming he's back in contact with OW and this is what she is telling him...to come back to her. OW is telling H her "sad stories" that H said he was sick of. I'm taking a lot of what H says this week personally I think, ASSuming. Mainly becuase he went to her house the other night in a drunken stupor and ASSuming OW's back on his mind.

Cathy