What both those 2 said nilla and t! Omg it's so spot on.
My h used to do most of those things, and each time was always the last. What made me think h is narc, was the fact he had the a. I suspect now looking back at how many times there was big breaks for a couple of weeks at a time h was always having a.
I do know h had a long ea while married to first wife. He always said it wasn't, but he way he talks of it, it most defiantly was.
The other things are narc when done, they don't look back as your supply is used up. "Dirty used up" direct quote
They never fully detch, they always keep track of old supply. H always wanted to know what xw was up to. Quote " she brought her new bf to rub on his face! " they had been ssperated 9 years.
Narcs don't like truth set a your not welcome on my farm boundary and nc with s17. H had only turned up twice, to threaten and had not contacted s17 even to offer sympath on the death of his aunt. He spewed, even tho he has been pretty much nc. Like a child a angry.
They were his rules being Inforced on him, but he couldn't see the truth, narcs don't do truth.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26