Bright- not sure about where you live but I was able to get a separation agreement that is a contract for the finances, property, custody and visitation. This might be available in your state. Talke to a lawyer.
My H works in another state as well. It is hard to live in the land of in-between. Separated but not divorced. I have found having one boundaries in a contract has helped me feel mentally stronger.
Like Bea said maybe just certain dates you agree to in writing? As for the condo as far as the law it is 50/50. You are both paying for it and using it. That is irrefutable. Does H have property where he works?
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
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