From your post today, I think you've found your DBing groove. I would carry on just as you are with W, but keep focusing on building up new things for yourself outside of your M. I think your interactions with your W sound much better now, but focus on building up your GAL too, so that you have your own friends and activities.
The other challenge I think is to manage impatience and frustration - which are DB enemies. Once you have found your 'groove' I think time and patience are the watchwords. You are still feeling heartened by your W's change and things she may be noticing, but settle yourself in for the long haul here...it's best if you can get to a place where you don't worry too much about what W may think or notice. That takes time, but it's a good direction of travel.
The other thing to think about is your 'judgement' of W in some of your recent posts. Zues posted something recently about this, which struck a chord with me. You may want to have a read and ponder this too. Of course I'm no vet and these are just my 0.2s.
Have a happy Easter! T :-)
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
