Another update. Still proceeding with divorce. Although she continues to drag her feet. She is almost 2 months late turning in her discovery answers. We had a trial date set for a week ago, so obviously we missed it. Odds are we would not have made it anyways. She did get served on Dec. 17...the day after my last update.
I did find out something which blew my mind. I am hesitant to post it online though on the off chance she has found this site. Ill post about it at a future date though for sure. But for now lets just say 100% confirmation on A.
Her demeanor is as pleasant as it has been since oh December or so. She is all smiles and initiates conversations freely at events we attend together (usually kid/school things). She sends random friendly text and sometimes sends 'reminiscent' texts...usually at night. In fairness I do reply to her texts and have on occasion sent non kid related texts, such as maybe a hot donut I just got from Krispy Kreme.
On my personal level, I really have reached that level of emotional detachment where I am ok with life as it is. I am looking forward to my future. I do wish she would not drag her feet on the D as it does cause inconveniences in moving forward.
Not sure what else to say right now so I will leave it at this and go search out my old DB buddy stories and see how everyone else is doing these days.
Best wishes to all!!!
I hope all my old DB buddies are doing well. I have not been on this site since my last update in December. Not that I gave up caring about you guys, but when you drop the rope and you are truly done, part of it is dropping here.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16