Talked to a friend of my parents today that is going through a similar sitch. Her H had been cheating on her, fake reconciled 3 times, all kind of stuff. Talking with her felt so much like reading things on these boards. Things like how the WAS is totally different person, how things they do make no sense, etc. She actually said that she talked to her IC and she said about how the A is akin to an addiction, just like we say here.
I could also see that she was telling me and feeling the things that we are told by the vets here. Overall it was good validating that I'm on the right path for myself, kids and whatever the outcome of our sitch may be.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
