Put one foot in front of the other...

[Elly4]

Why is it that when I'm detaching well, I always seem to fall off the wagon!!! Argh!

So as I said earlier this week, I spent the last 8 days battling the flu in my son and myself. My H never helped and was distant. Today the flu got him, so I took care of things with a PMA and hung out with my S while my H stayed huddled on the couch. I said nothing. Then right when it's bath time he says he's going to bed which sends my S into tears because daddy always reads a story to him. So I asked if it was possible for him to stay up 15 more minutes in order to read. He immediately gets defensive and angry and tells me I'm not supporting him.

So then I have pushed him away and I still have to deal with my S. I should have just STFU and wished him well. Sigh.