i know. and agree. I and i think Kramer as well, are mainly venting, war wounds etc. the focus is me, and by extension my kids. it was b4 as well. or at least should've been. the M can fit in the middle of this, but that was only ever 50% in my hands at the best of times. the reason this S(->D) is in some ways is a blessing.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015