Letting go Qs

[Pyrite]

the picture s of the children really brought in a lot of support my side. everyone who has kids could imagine how hurtful it would be. so i am not really suffering from being ostracisezed, fully anyway. BUT it hurts that she is making a mockery out of our marriage. A friend recently had his Mum die. Terribly sad, but similarities with our grief are there. big difference is that he still loves her, and that is fine, he can celebrate the memories, mine are being poisoned.

some supporters are saying dont worry, she will fall flat on her face. karma etc. maybe i shouldn't want that anyway, but I can see that it likely won't happen. This new guy will inherit an improved version of my W, improved at my expense! Same is true of any future R i might have - BUT it was supposed to be with my W dammit.