So I am divorced.

[mahhhty]

Need some advice. W came to pick up the kids today (I'll pick them up tomorrow). She told me that she'll be with her family all day and asked if I would want her to drop the kids off or if I would like any to pick them up at the grandparents and then she add a "so you can see everyone and see what the grandparents got the kids."

I responded with a whatever is easiest comment. I am planning on asking via text tonight or tomorrow AM for her to drop them off. Is that the right course of action or should I go to a family event? The last time I went she tried to sneak out bc she was crying (at Xmas, see first thread).