Hi Toots! I am finally getting around to checking in on everyone and I just wanted to reiterate what everyone above has said. You seem like such an open, caring, giving person and your H is the loser if he doesn't see that. I think, from what I gather between your posts and your comments on mine, that our sitches are very similar in some ways.

You amaze and inspire me every time I read your posts and your comments and I thank you for being part of my DB family that is helping me find my way again.

Keep on keeping on, sister! You are amazing! smile Oh and thanks for your wonderful comments on my recent post. I appreciate your input and your compliments. It is all you fine DB folks who have helped me to find my way back to the person I am rediscovering.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids