I completely agree. He has the make changes because mine are not enough. I'm still dark and when I do see him I have been bubbly and positive.
I'm rockin a pair of jeans today that are a size smaller and still had to go it on a belt!!! And that is awesome. Went out with friends last night and danced from about 11:00 until 3:00 am. Had a blast.
Husband is coming over tomorrow after 12 so we can amicably discuss the divorce paperwork. Up beat, positive, and nonconfrontational. He has recently been seeki ng appropriate treatment for his back but I would definit ky have to see permanent changes in order for me to really be able to keep putting myself all in.
I still have ant reconciliation. So, I'm following the tips for a WAS (walk away and wayward)... If he continues getting proper treatment and snc this is the he first incidents I would rather give it a try. 12 years married and 3.5 years spent dating is very hard to throw away.
I showed him a pic of a smokin hot dress that I bought because he mentioned something about how I was looking. My girlfriends are going to take me out to rock that dress when I lose a few more pounds. And I thought of him that. I'm on a roll now down almost 20 lbs. He was real quiet after a that. Asked me about paint colors (we exchanged kids at Lowe's) and then I parted ways on a positive note.
