Hey Freddy. No matter how prepared we think we are, when we get the papers it still throws us some. Just something to work through and you will.
Good call on the 19 year old...just sayin. .
As far as your wife, she is still spinning. She is still trying to find the thing that is going to make her feel better. But that's not going to happen until she looks within and does the work. But none of that is in your control, right?
Oh and about telling her she should be single? Yea, not your place, nor your problem, ya know? She's got to figure it out on her own. You have to let her.
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