You just have to reach a point when you realize that in her eyes you're the unreasonable abusive insensitive jerk that tried to destroy her identity during the M and is still trying to as she is only attempting to "heal" from the damage that you've done.
Anything you do to try to change this perspective just shows you're crazy because only she can change that. At some point you just got to quit caring or even being judgmental about it. She's a human in the worst spot of her life, acting like it. Live and let live. But don't take it to heart.
Thank-you for this Zues. This applies in so many situations on here. I feel like I need this reminder myself once a week.
Me:43, WW:45 2 Kids: 21,22 Married: 23 Years Bomb: 01/2015 Separate Bedrooms: 02/2015 She left: 03/2015
