Why do we stand? Big picture perspective. See, in the short term, it IS easier to just split and find someone else. Then in 5-10 years when you get in the same spot just rinse and repeat. The problem with that is that you end up with a series of broken families and spread that pattern to your children so they can do the same. You'll never have a lifelong partner, you'll be deprived of the comfort of knowing you can work through anything with your W, you may be alone when your body starts to fail and you want companionship. All of those things. So yeah, if you want out of pain now and just the best 1-2 years possible, PM me and I can give you a list of destructive ways to medicate. But those of us here want more.
of course i agree about the "sanctity" of M. A few minutes after BD, she screamed I don't owe you anything. "Excuse me but you do, thats what commitment is." There is so much too learn from this, to make us healthier and stronger. I wanted to learn it together. I wanted to look back on this as a great moment in our marriage that brought us closer together.
I've had way too much experience with self medication thanks. Ironically, my whole life, including the whole gambit. But now, the last 3 months, zip. Not even a beer. I'm surprised myself actually.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
