just checked - that's 6/6 mortgage repayments screwed up by the WAS, totally preoccupied with her happiness. All the finances are being screwed. I organised mediation to discuss custody issues. I was hoping for more participation/co-operation on her part as it was an issue with our children, but so far, not a good response.

I have been told (by W) to keep our contact to business only and be professional. which is reasonable. but she is not helping matters. It seems she has done nothing but push my buttons since BD at every turn.

I flip every minute about whether I want to do this or not, save my M. does anyone else think this is crazy? The person is saying I want x? and we're thinking, nah - your just confused. wait till you see the new me. maybe she just wants x. I know my friend who was a WAH just wanted x, and now is very happy.
actually, damn, just thought of 3 more cases of WAS's enjoying their new M/R.


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015