"At some point you just got to quit caring or even being judgmental about it. She's a human in the worst spot of her life, acting like it. Live and let live. But don't take it to heart."
Zues, you are so right with this wise comment. It helps me a lot to see H this way, and you describe the essence of detachment - which is very much a work in progress for me...
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus