Confused and mix messages. Part 3

[Cherry]

When I said to him about how I feel I've neglected him- he just says that's in my mind. But again we shouldnt beleive what they say and do right now. He is definitely in some kind of crisis. His usual interests don't bother him anymore. He wants to be out all the time- it is as if he has been possessed!
The thing is now I feel I've said my piece, I've told him how I feel. So I know I stop it there otherwise I'm persuing. He keeps banging on about counselling too. And he likes to keep me close. Like the things he has said about after a d we can still live together, be friends, raise a child together, he will still help me financially wether I want it or not blah blah blah.
He is cake eating, I'm sure of it. But I don't see why he is trying to resist me sexually and tells me that. He makes no sense.
All I can do is plod on,, hope he doesn't file in the meantime. I know from the start I've come on. But a life without him still just isn't what I want.