Confused and mix messages. Part 3

[Pyrite]

Wow Cherry, a baby and all, you are doing well to be so sane. My WAS was unhappy in the relationship and so walked, basically because I made it an unhappy relationship. I actually think there were underlying issues prior to the real downturn that probably should've been dealt with, BUT the marriage turned sour in the 1st few months after our 1st baby. She was an obsessive mother, even she recognises that now, but basically I felt neglected.
It just isn't me to pursue an A, but I can understand if that is what your H did. Maybe the offer was in his face. Who knows. Maybe there were other issues and the baby is only part of it. It is a huge change to your life becoming a parent. Again, dont know. I am just saying that the neglect I felt was very real. It sent me into a tailspin when my wife just shrugged it off. I wish she had've been half as devoted as you are. I wish I played things differently as well, but thats another story.