Pattie,

I was beginning to think it was just my H and it's not just my H, so I don't have a rare breed of male then.

That H admits he doesn't know why he says it is good, but it doesn't stop him either. It's a nonthinking kind of thing to say.

And yes T2 "Don't do as I do, do as I say" is my H. My boss is like that, also.

Now that I'm off of H's rollercoaster, detached from his drama it's easier to just blow those kinds of words off. I will continue to hold him accountable when he does say them or just walk away.

H didn't come home last night, but that was kind of expected. Went to a hockey game with his drinking buddies so I'm ASSuming he stayed at one of their houses. We were supposed to go on a day trip bright and early this morning, but I guess that ain't happening. Which is fine with me, it was a two hour drive and frankly I'd rather hang close to home today.

T2 so glad to hear from you. I kind of cringed when I saw you posted to me...you have a way of putting the truth out there like nobody else. I love it!!

Cathy