Kimmerz,

Thanks for posting. I am about about a year after BD. Just finished a legal separation and financial settlement. The crazy continues but now I feel a little more secure stepping aside.

The part where you said that "he acts like nothing has happened while you are screaming inside." --- That is exactly how I feel. Luckily he lives so far away and has forgotten he is a dad. Rarely contacts D19 and D16 won't speak to him without a real conversation.

We are doing well. The girls are thriving but I feel utterly destroyed inside. Trying to rebuild our lives....you know and you've helped me by sharing. Thank you so much!


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou