Originally Posted By: Kramer
I am just so fed up, sad, and frustrated. She has completely written off my children and grandchildren, and has not spoken with them since affair was discovered

This just struck a chord with me. It hurts so badly to see them turn their back on your kids, right?

My ex did this when he moved to Russia to live with his OW. I asked if it did not bother him that he would never see the boys again, and he answered that they were "lost to him anyway, so why did it matter?" But he has returned, and has been attempting to reconnect with both of them and our grandkids too, to some extent.

So don't lose hope Kramer. It took my ex almost six years, but he has finally gotten to the part of the script where he reconnects with his children.

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17