W said in the beginning of the separation, that a divorce is not a big deal for the kids. Financially she was convinced that it would be the same standard of living as before. She was not open to the real costs of a divorce, because she lives in a romantic fantasy world. For the first time in month she seems to discover that there are downsides to a divorce. I don't want to feed her idea of a painless divorce. I don't want to keep all the problems of the separation away from her. Right now I am stubborn, because I have invested so many weekends and weeks in her dream to become a therapist. For years I have supported her in any possible way. But all those years does not count anymore. I am her babysitter while she buys new underwear for someone else? Sorry folks, I am emotionally quiet sore at the moment.
Me 46 W 45 S16 D14 S10 M 20 yrs in June T22 12/14 sleeping in different rooms 01/07/15 she said she wants a separation 02/26/15 I moved out
