She worked around it. I kind of figured she would. She had been acting a little too nice these past couple days.
Decided to do a random transparency check today on her. Sure enough, some cute little messages. Just went to her, asked for her phone, looked, saw, and said "Ok, well, c'ya later." Went and got a couple beers to relax....I know the bar scene is not recommended, helped clear my mind though.
Came back. Mentioned my boundaries again. Said I was not going to support the A with the money I make for the family. She can find her own ways.
She had some of the standard claims about our R. "I feel like we are just platonic," "I just cannot love you like that," "I came back for S3," One thing she mentioned was "I need him." Ok then.
I did validate all of her feelings. Lots of pauses on her part. She said no, I have been worrying about my finances this entire time....of course, and S3. "Your decisions."
