I'm so sorry, GGrass. Hugs, big ones. Keep posting if you can.
I read your NC bit on Gan's thread. I know that is where I will be soon. Dynamic seems familiar enough.

What do you plan to do about this now that you are getting the wide angle view and time?


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.