I thought everything was okay....(Part 5)

[Zues126]

My WAW did the same thing. She'd interpret me doing exactly what we agreed on as hostility in some weird way, then talk about how she wanted to avoid legal battles but I guess that's the way I made it, etc.

Again and again. She'd complain about a bill that was going to be auto deducted from her bank account and it would overdraft her. I put money in. Then she complained that I was messing up her "proof of income" because the deposit I made would show her getting more support than she normally would which would disqualify her for government assistance she was applying for.

Seriously, I have text message exchanges that would blow your mind. It's so irrational you'd accuse me of falsifying them.

You just have to reach a point when you realize that in her eyes you're the unreasonable abusive insensitive jerk that tried to destroy her identity during the M and is still trying to as she is only attempting to "heal" from the damage that you've done.

Anything you do to try to change this perspective just shows you're crazy because only she can change that. At some point you just got to quit caring or even being judgmental about it. She's a human in the worst spot of her life, acting like it. Live and let live. But don't take it to heart.