well, backwards we go in our communication yet again.

We agreed the other week to go get taxes done together. I sent an email telling her the appointment time. She replied that she will not be going and will do hers herself.

Also, based on the email earlier, I said that I had an appt with L in the beginning of May and said I would like to hold off talking Sep. Agreement until after that time (more on the house.) She replied back that we were going to MC in order not to get L involved and as such she's cancelling MC because of my choice.

So, I'm not quite sure what is going on with her right now. We were talking just fine last week at MC about kids and such, she cancels this weeks MC, goes back on the plans that she asked me to make (taxes,) brings up custody and house stuff, and then tries to deflect back on me that I'm the one that's causing this?!?

When she picked up the kids today, I said "W, I'm available anytime to discuss your email." She said reply back in the email. I said, "W, here's another area that I'm going with your decision." She said," this is not my decision."

WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THIS PERSON!?!

I know it's normal, but these huge swings in her attitude is just wearing me out. Like I said, I don't want to threaten her that if we can't talk about anything at all, I don't understand how we can jointly make decisions about our kids. I've procrastinated for months on the kid thing in order to see if she can improve communications, but it looks like I need to make decisions based on this being the norm if she wants to talk about it now.

Last edited by MCS; 04/04/15 03:29 AM.
M:36 W:37
T: 15 M:11
S6 D5
BD: 8/10/14
IDLY: 8/12/14
S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids)
D Mentioned: 10/15/14
Confronted about OM: 10/15/14
EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13
She filed: 8/15 (not final)