Yeah, i think this is going to be one that we just have different opinions. However, thank you for reminding me that other approaches are not necessarily wrong, just different.
Closer,
Holidays/Birthdays we've never discussed how to handle. It's all based on how she feels at the moment and even if we agree, she changes her mind at the last second. Take Easter for instance. When she asked me the other week what I thought, I said it was her time with the kids and while I didn't like it, that's part of what has happened. Well she said today she will drop them off Easter afternoon. I replied back "thanks for considering Easter, I have plans jn the morning and afternoon and would prefer if you could drop them off closer to 5pm" sh then replied "I will drop them off Monday morning then." Same thing happened with D4's birthday, we were going to go out as a family (this was the weekend after fake Reconciling) then she said I couldn't see her, it was her day and then finally allowed me to take her out for lunch.
Anyway, I'm going to post another here based in style email back from WW. It's got me kinda fuming
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
