Heavy D - 10+ months of no pursuit, no going after answers and STFU. I think most familiar with my sitch would agree that mine has been one of the darkest here - NC actually means NC. H left few clues from the beginning. There comes a time when you need more information in order to move forward.
Makes sense. I can see how getting clear rejection and dismissal signs can help overcoming clinging denial and help deal with reality, striving towards acceptance. That's the one thing about going dark- it gives you a lot of time to project and imagine fictitious things about what's going through your WAS's head. Sometimes it helps to see the person they really are, and how they really feel. And...if it helps reach detachment, maybe that will be the best strategic step as well.
Gan- take care and thanks for posting on my thread. I didn't realize I was so negative before. I truly consider myself a very positive person. But I guess this road would make even Ned Flanders utter a "phooey" once or twice.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
