Should I even continue with DB/DR? Why not just put it all on the table, tell her to F-off, and tell her that I never want to see her again? Please understand that I don't necessarily mean that, but I am just so fed up, sad, and frustrated. She has completely written off my children and grandchildren, and has not spoken with them since affair was discovered. They were always SO CLOSE, and she has completely walked away from them. I am nothing but a stranger to her, and she badmouths me to her friends and family, even though she was the one that had the affair. This whole thing happened so fast, and she never gave it a chance.
I understand that things take time, and I read other posts voraciously. However, I just don't see a chance in HE** that my sitch will improve.
Why do you need to tell her this? What are you expecting to happen?
there is not going to be a magic button instantaneously fixing your marriage. Our marriages were over at bomb drop the question is can we build a new one.
