The turtle Stuff is almost gerafe and jackel talk.
The reason why I have listened s17 to spew Is to help build that emotional connection. To give him a safe palce to express his emotion. The first step was to give him the safety and then to direct his verbal abuse language. Or tools to deal with what he needs to do.
The biggest let down was my validations, I don't think actually directing him will work, he will resent being told to do anything which is why the spew got worse.
Telling him not to, is in his eyes like an order and thus he will in the short term rebel due to age.
Tough, one. Althought I did suggest now he know how to fill in welfare forms he can fill in job applications. something his actions have shown he can do. he had no response to any of that.
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M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
something his actions have shown he can do. 
he had no response to any of that. 