NLS,

I think Lorelai said it best when she mentioned to have "no expectations." My wife is living with her controlling Mom and is not even close ti the woman I married. I know exactly what Lorelai means. It's taken me too long to have no expectations, but it seems to help me feel better.

Hang in there and good luck! We'll help you through this.

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15