You children are the most innocent victims of all of this. You don't want to punish them by accident. Don't think of it as taking it off her shoulders. Think of it as another valuable weekend with your children.

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My kids and I would enjoy the weekend, but right now I don't want to take anything off of her shoulders.
It sounds like you are trying to punish her, despite your saying to the contrary.

RAI


Me 48 XW 45
lots o' kids
D April 2017