I have just spoken with S16 on the phone. My W. would always feel bad when I draw back from the family. She would blame herself for messing everything up. He asked me to get closer again, so that she would feel better. Her fantasy of a painless separation is tumbling down. RAI I will think about it. My kids and I would enjoy the weekend, but right now I don't want to take anything off of her shoulders. She was convinced that once I would leave her life, everything would be joy and bliss. I don't want to punish her. It is about self-respect.
Me 46 W 45 S16 D14 S10 M 20 yrs in June T22 12/14 sleeping in different rooms 01/07/15 she said she wants a separation 02/26/15 I moved out
