I think H is seeing someone else, have suspected it for a while. I actually asked him - I know, I know, he'd never admit it.
Two nights ago - I went to get into bed - (we still share a bed, or shared a bed as of two nights ago anyway), and as I lay my head down on the pillow tears started to pour. Silent sobbing. Very weird for me, so I got my pillow, and blanket, and I moved to the couch. I fell asleep immediately.
When we both got up to start the day, he was very vocal about his schedule for the day, he even made a point to stop, look at me, and tell me what time he would be home. *Strange*
During the day I make a point not to text, or call, and normally I get a simple text from him saying he is on his way home, and I usually respond with ok, or thanks.
Last night I received two texts: one saying he missed the last bus out of the city, and another detailing exactly where he was in the cab. *Very Strange* When I heard him at the door - prior to entering the apartment- he said "wow that took a long time" - I have never ever heard him do anything like that before. *Stranger Still*
When I saw his face - he looked happy, happier than I'd seen him in a long time - even better than he looked that morning. *Hmm*
There was an event at his job, where he quite possibly could have had a good time, and I asked how it went, and whether he enjoyed it. He said it was fine, standard deal, nothing particularly enjoyable. *OK*
He made and ate a sandwich, and got ready for bed. He never used the bathroom. I noticed that because he always has to pee when he gets home. He didn't until he got up later on during the early morning hours - he left the seat up in the bathroom**
***A few weeks ago we spent the weekend together, then he lied to me, hid his phone, and whatever he was doing on it from my sight, he also locked his phone - he has never done that before - in all the years we've been together.
I want to know if he is seeing someone else. I feel like I deserve to know that much. After all I've been going through, making sure I don't disrespect our marriage, even though he wants the divorce.
I feel it's the least he can do for me.
W/41 H/42 Married: 2yrs 6months Together: 11yrs 11/21/14 - Argument H didn't let go - stopped wearing his wedding band 1/23/15 - Asks for Divorce 0 - kids 2 dogs
