I have been on this forum for over 3 months. My wife walked away and filed for divorce 5 months ago. I think the message you sent your husband was very good, and I would be nervous, too! That is to be expected.
My advice, is that if your husband wants to speak about reconciliation to not get too excited and let him know you want to take things slowly. It he senses you are over-anxious, it might push him away a bit.
I hope this is not the case, but if he wants to speak about divorce, please, please try not to get too emotional, listen to what he has to say, and let him know you now understand his concerns.
Anyone else on the board have some advice for NLS? She needs our help!
Good luck to you.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
