I totally understand that I can NOT read his mind. I know there are many reasons why he would not want to sign his rights away. It actually makes sense to me, I would want my share if it was the other way around. I was surprised because last year this time he was ready for me to REFI in my name and sign away his rights to the house. His focus was to get bills lower so it would not be hard for me to cover the MTG on my own.
Now on this issue Im a lil bothered cause we are wasting money paying higher interest rate, and it was something he was PUSHING hard for , but the deal/rates were not the best last year, it was lower but not enough, but now it would really make sense to go thru with it. The rates, no closing cost (REFI thru my job), 2 months no payment, discount thru my job making int rate even lower.
AND NOW this, now he talking about getting his tax issues resovled and then WE can looking into REFI.
If it was not for the possibility of a tax lien once I refi as married, I would just do it, I dont care about him signing away his rights, that is only to avoid a tax lien...
Heck IF he leaves I have no problem giving him his share IF/WHEN I sold this house. But if Im still in the house,,then I have no plans on "buying" him out,,,well since his name not on MTG or Title and I was not married when I brought the house I would not have to "buy" him out,,,well maybe this is the best right now cause if he leaves M, right now I would not have to "buy" him out anyway..OK I will use this as my positive.
So not fair that even though he not being a H, he is making H decisions that affect me. WOW
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
