Gg

Obviously the stories on TED of abuse resonated with you. Can you tell me exactly what it was that released emotion in you?

Yes I know you are no longer in that sitch but the drama is triggered here. What can I do to help you talk this through, if you want to do so?

We are fellow travellers on this road as is Zelda and I understand your concern. Zelda has got this, she is intelligently evaluating her M and her role and thank goodness she asks for help, her roommate, her IC and her friends. She will know if her H is narc on her and will sort it out. My immediate thought is for Gg who flahes to the abuse especially the assault on then S15. This thought arises frequently for Gg and is hurting my friend.

it is useful to discuss these things I think and Gg I admire your attitude. The more that we open up the easier healing will be. I am a warts 'n all too, I hope so.

Can your H still be in your head pushing buttons even though he is physically absent.?

That is how abuse is. I know this, we can say no to the thoughts and stop when it arises. I sometimes hear H ranting at me in my head and have to use 'go away get out of my thoughts'.

I am here to listen Gg, and can I convince you to talk to IC about this too?

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 04/03/15 05:28 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW