Continue to vent on here! Let it go in this forum.
I had a very similar thought this morning actually: "How can she just give up without even trying?"
Part of this chapter is doing a lot of personal reflection for me to realize what part I played in the prior problems with the marriage. I have found times when I made her feel alone, neglected, insecure, and others. Most of these things I never realized I was doing at the time. She never communicated how I made her feel, and I never realized the problem. Not a good situation.
Me:43, WW:45 2 Kids: 21,22 Married: 23 Years Bomb: 01/2015 Separate Bedrooms: 02/2015 She left: 03/2015