Affair Over but Stuck

[Hurt06]

Ground ZERO....well wife has asked me to move out again.... that she needs space and her health issues are because I am here in our house with our 3 children.

I am holding my ground and explained that while I respect her need for space I will not be moving out of our house and that she must do what ever she feels she needs to do even though this is not what I want. She says that as a gentleman that I need to be the one to leave because the kids have to stay with her and she will not separate from them....I have stuck to the 37 rules and gone exactly by the advice received last week on here.

She wants to take the kids and leave but I am unsure how she intends to pay for her own place. She has a 10 an hour job and works 20 hours per week. The numbers are just not there to support her decision. Of course I have not said a word about the monetary issues she doesn't seem to even acknowledge.

Any advice?