Wife sent me an email today. Since she had cancelled last week, she said that MC is off next week and if 'I' would like to continue; to come prepared the following week to give her a proposal of a joint custody arrangement and what I want to do with the house.
Thoughts? Ideas?
My main objective if we are going to be D is to figure out a better way to communicate with the kids. Still NC with the kids when their at the other person's house. No verbal communication of plans for them, no joint discussion of what's best given the sitch, IDK. My goals are to be able to share events that we can both be there...parties, athletic activities, etc. as well as be able to call and talk to each other if there's any issues or questions with the other person.
Its been 8 months and I've only seen marginal improvement in her, her mindset, her emotional state, but the biggest issue is our communications, etc. I've thought long and hard about it and I don't want to threaten, but if I need to make decisions based on how things have been and are now, they would be different than if we could communicate about our kids. How do I get that across to her without threatening? I guess I need to do what I think is best for them.
Last edited by MCS; 04/03/1504:24 PM.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
