Joe,

Thanks for the answers to the questions and for the heartfelt post about your marriage and family.

It seems to me that your W is not able (or not interested) in holding down a job for the long-term based on what you wrote about her employment history. Does your W lose interest quickly?

Did your W enjoy the ranching lifestyle? Were there any complaints about ranching from W at all?

When you decided to change the ranching lifestyle....what jobs did you get for yourself?

One final question: when did W begin her current phone sex job? I may have missed it somewhere.

Sorry for these questions, but I am trying to gain a much clearer picture of your situation. This way, we will be able to offer some ideas and suggestions in DBing.