Talking about W and M - she was unhappy in the relationship. He co-worker was an option out. She took it. By the time the BD, she was way down that path already. Resistance was futile. Resistance now is futile.
So should I give up? Actively - yes. Passively - ???
My friend is ridiculously happy now with the woman he walked away with (also a co-worker). My W could end up the same way. So when do I give up, passively even? When the new R lasts 1 year, 3, they marry. It is very unlikely that R will end before our D is granted.
Invisibly working to win back my W, or yes yes I know GAL is for my benefit with or without my W. But the life I want is w my family. without this worry of custody and property. we can GAL together. already i feel that I am sort of escaping reality, GAL to appease DBing but escaping moving on by posting on this forum and secretly harbouring the plot to win my wife back.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
