Talking about custody - whilst ATM W seems to be happy w 50/50, she is not happy w locale. She wants to move 1-2 hrs drive away. Realistic compromises would seriously dint validity of maintaining 50/50 custody. I have already proposed myself as the primary carer - no response as usual, but as my friend pointed out, if she is not already planning it, she will realise it soon enough, that ideal sitch for her would be new man, new house, new locale, full custody. Then she gets win, win, win. And courts most likely to go Mother's way if it comes to that.

and why should his opinion carry any weight - because as the WAH years back, that is what he wanted - and eventually got because his W was crazy. Now he has a great life. Hence my post elsewhere - in his eyes WA was the best decision he ever made.


M: 6 T: 12
Kids: 2,4
BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015
EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015