Just read your last post, GG.

I will. I will get back to my fabulous self and do it up. I never let that really slip, but it's been a long time since I felt like myself - vivid, strong, full of life - I've felt like a watercolor of it trying to manage H post accident and being more of what he said he needed.

Thank you for your support.

Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.