Narc are low on self esteem, they hide it often.

Mine did heaps of charity work, I suspect he pocketed cash from the charity. He worked manic at times on the latest project that would gain him thanks and gratitude or recognition.

They get nastier the more on the inside you are. So in the beginning they will appear your perfect match. Mine liked soul mates as a term.

We were soul mates, so is the ow! They use same stories different names, like h was in a car accident he mixed my car accident with the neghbours.

Very story they tell will be someone else's. So a mate told a story and I said hold on that was h! Nothing is original.

They don't want you knowing the truth. They gaslight and re write history from the get go, just more and more as things go on.


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26